Thursday, December 1, 2016

Around the World in 33 Days: Copenhagen

Guess where I am!?

Dresden Germany! But I’ll get to that soon enough.

Obviously I left Jersey for Europe. I had left with a semi offer to work at a hostel in Prague. But then when I emailed back for confirmation on start date and a place… radio silence. If this had been a few months ago I probably would have freaked out and who knows made some stupid decision. Instead I bought a ticket to Bangkok.

What?! Why Thailand? Well there’s a few things that I’ve thought long and hard about. First off even though Christmas sucked last year I wasn’t 100% sure I could hack a Christmas on my own. I figured I’d just be crying all day and of 0 use to anyone. And honestly I don’t think I could handle that. So I won’t be! I’ll be home for Christmas. I’ve also met a guy. And so far he’s done nothing but challenge me, in a good way.  He kind of has his crap together and the worst part… he’s younger then I am. So I did a lot of thinking in Copenhagen. I know by no standards is 26 old. But I haven’t got much to show for it except a bunch of passport stamps. I ended up searching for a job and found a Travel Agent job in Union NJ. And I spent an excited and fitful night thinking over how to get home the earliest without sacrificing any adventure.

My solution was simple and clear.

And after prompting from my mum to just do what I wanted....

I booked a ticket to Bangkok the next day.

I take off Saturday. And I’m scared shitless. At the very least it’ll be a good story in the end.

I’ll be home for Christmas and a holiday party with afore mentioned handsome man. And I’ll be patiently waiting to hear back about that job.

Now that you’re caught up on where the fuck this is all going. Allow me to wow you with Copenhagen!







I went to the Street Food Market. If you’re in Copenhagen you should totally go there. It’s super hipster. But you MUST go hungry! Because damn is the food good!





You can’t go to Copenhagen without seeing The Little Mermaid!





And there’s a military base on an island right by the Mermaid and it was super cute to walk around.




I saw the very famous Nyhavn. It’s a waterfront built by King Christian V from 1670 to 1673. And the Danish were like meh digging this is so below us, so they had Swedish prisoners dig it! Also since it was the gateway to the area where they did all the cargo and fish business this waterfront was the place to be. Back in it’s hay day it was known for beer, sailors, and prostitution.  Get this the first bridge across it was built in 1875!! Two hundred years and there was no bridge between the sides.  And to wrap in the Little Mermaid to Nyhavn, Hans Christian Anderon lived there for a year and a half (the swanky bastard!).




Come on though it’s pretty…



And on Nyhavn there is an old light boat moored there. Instead of having a lighthouse in the harbor they would anchor this thing and turn it on to warn of sand bars and the like. How cool?!



I saw the Palace! Christianborg Palace is not only the palace but also the seat of the Danish Parliament.  And it might not look like much but it’s the only one of it’s kind in the world… in respect to the fact that under that roof is every branch of the Danish government. The Danish parliament (legislative), the Prime Minster’s Office (Executive), and the Supreme Court of Denmak. How cool is that! And there are still enough rooms for the Monarch to have the Royal reception Rooms, the Palace Chapel and the Royal Stables.



I also saw Rosenburg castle. It was a rather small castle to be honest.



And the City Hall reminded me a bit of a fortress!


And then I got up at 5am to make my flight to Rome!!!!


Cheers,

Thursday, October 13, 2016

So Who Wants to Know What I've Been Up Too?

So this is an insane and cool predicament I’m in… well sort of. I mean It’s been over a year since I last posted. But this post is also a cause for celebration! It’s my 300th post. Like holy fucking shit! Seven years and 300 posts!

I wish I had posted more. I mean I never even caught you guys up on the rest of my trip! Shit so much has happened and I’ve neglected you all immensely. Well not that many have been paying attention anyway. But this is still like my therapy, it’s a place to let shit out and relax and just say whatever and not be judged. It’s a platform that I feel like I can inspire people and just tell my store. I like telling stories. And I like telling my story.

Telling your own story is something you rarely get to do because everyone that you know has seen your story evolve and watched you become the person that you are. And here… here almost no one knows me. No one knows what shit I’ve been through in the last year. No one knows how depressed I’ve been. No one will judge me on the fact that I’m now gearing up for a trip to Europe where I will be totally selfish.

I’m going to Europe because I feel so trapped and suffocated in my life. I had a boyfriend for the last year and I can honestly say it wasn’t a relationship that benefited me. I learned a lot from it but I’m ready to move on. I’m ready for a new adventure and that’s what I’m off to next month. It’s been over a year now since I’ve had a huge European adventure.

Speaking of European adventures… After Oslo I went to London





Because everyone knows I can’t resist London…

I also can’t resist Trafalgar Square and it’s for an other post but I decided to show my love for Trafalgar in 50 pictures of the square. It was a fun way to spend the afternoon.

I went to Dover to finally see the White Cliffs that I have wanted to see for years!!




And I went to Worcester…



And got a Tattoo!


Then I went to Spain to visit Ana..


And I went back to the Lighthouse that I’d been at four years before and I couldn’t help but reflect even then how much my life had changed…


And then of course I had to go to Barcelona to visit Lenka!




I took a mini Gaudi tour of the city… but that’s another post as well I suppose.



And after Barcelona I went to Paris…


I’d met an amazing French girl while I was in London. We were both staying at the same hostel and she liked my blue hair. So we started chatting and I ended up staying on her couch while in Paris. I met up with Damien’s Sister and we went clubbing. And I lost my wallet. But then I got it back.

And Paris grew a little tiny fond spot in my heart….


After Paris I flew to Ireland. One of the families that I nanny for in the states moved there for 6 months for the dad’s job. So I went to see them.  And we had a fucking blast!

I got to see Cobh again…



They stayed in Kinsale and the town is so pretty…



And I got to see Cork.



It was an amazing trip and it was lovely and I didn’t want it to end. But well shit from home just started weighing me down. Things were really going to shit with the house and all that. And I was still worked up about my dog Charles.



He ended up getting pretty sick and on October 30th we put him down. It was really hard and upsetting for me because he was my dog more then anyone else’s. So that was really really hard. But then so much changed so fast.

My dad and older brother moved to Mount Holly. Christmas sucked, I spent the morning with at the time boyfriend. Then I put together furniture at my dad’s house and had dinner with my brother’s girlfriend’s family. It was nice but…

Christmas had always been my favourite holiday. It had always been an amazing kind of day and all about family and food and I knew it had to end sooner or later because us kids would all find significant other’s but I still didn’t want it to end and to actually have what I considered an “adult” Christmas sucked.


But I got over it. New years came and went. And the rest of the year really just molded together in a blur of shit and work and drama. 

But in the less shit bit of it all I went to Denver with Jameson, who I was dating at the time. It was a fun trip. So I saw Denver...


And Rocky Mountain National Park.

I went to Canada for the first time and saw Niagara Falls! 


And I went to visit my mum in Texas. That was a bright spot in it all




And my best friend Sheridan came out from Nebraska and we had a grand adventure and saw Boston!



But those mini trips weren't enough to stave off the suffocation of routine. Then just a few weeks ago I decided enough was enough. I needed to clean my life up. I’d been in a constant depressed mood and I was tired of it. So I broke up with my boyfriend and really started to do more of what made me happy.

Since I’ve moved in with a friend. After losing the High Bridge house I moved in with my little brother for ages but then he got engaged and I wanted them to have the house so I moved in with a friend. I’ll be couchsurfing for a few weeks soon because I feel like it. I’ve had more time for myself and to do what I like…

I started writing a new book! And I got a third job. But it’s a fun job. So I nanny for two families on Mondays. Tuesday through Saturday I’m at the shop. And Friday through Sunday night I work at a haunted hayride.

And holy shit I realized since I haven’t blogged you all aren’t aware that I’ve had a “real” job sinc e I got home from Europe!!!! My little brother Hunter works as a mechanic. And two days before I’m home he messages me and asks if I want to be the Service Writer (aka glorified secretary). And I was like yes totally. So he was like okay come in for an interview Monday. I got Saturday night. So I was in for the interview Monday and I started Wednesday. And I’ve been working there ever since!

It was good money and I saved up and paid lots of bills and all that good stuff. I finished writing my young adult vampire novel while at work. So really it was perfect because I didn’t have a lot of work to do so I could write and read. And now it’s just annoying to work there. All the drama is killing me so Tuesday was my birthday!! I’m 26 yay!! And I also quite my job. I gave my boss my one month notice!

I figured I had to do it soon because I take off on November 14th! So he knows I’m not coming back and it was good to finally let everyone know what the fuck I was doing. Because I’d bought those tickets over a month ago!

So there you are essentially caught up on my life without all the boring whining! And I couldn’t be happier with how it’s all fallen into place. I leave for Copenhagen on the 14th. Why Copenhagen? Well I’ve never been and the plane ticket from JSK to COP was only $172!!! Yes one hundred and seventy two dollars on Norwegian air! From Copenhagen I fly to Rome and Rome to Prague for Thanksgiving with Lenka! And then I’m looking for a Hostel job in prague so I can chill there for a while. Otherwise I might go be an au pair in Milan… So we shall see! For now I’m leaving the door open to adventure and I’m sure it will all turn out just grand!

Cheers,